Motherhood Goals
May 10th we honor mothers, mother like figure for Mother's Day. We also honor mothers that transitioned from earth. Mother's Day is special because being a mom holds a special role and esteem.
Motherhood is one of the greatest titles to have. Motherhood comes with a lots of responsibility, love, respect, learning, and rewards.
My first teacher was my mom. My mom taught me how to take care of myself, stand up for myself, and how to get along and work with others. I learn best by watching. I watched how my mom treated others, how she gave back and most importantly how she overcome adversity.
Ive been a mom for 8 years and I'm enjoying every minute of it. Some vital lessons I learned about motherhood are
Create a legacy you want your child to be proud of
Create generational wealth not generational debt
Carry yourself with respect and poise
Surround yourself around like-minded people and people that wants to see you win.
Ride your own wave, stop getting easily distracted, don't allow the noise of the naysayers to pull you in.
In order to be a wholesome mother you have to take care of yourself. As woman we yearn for softness, beauty, pampering and fulfillment. If we lack these things we can get burned out, feel lonely, depressed, etc. I encourage woman to pour back what you had let out. Motherhood is not the only hat we wear. Some of us have careers, businesses, married, leaders, ministers, etc. Some woman are pulled in different directions.. I recommend that mothers set time aside to engage in selfcare i.e. exercising, healthy eating, engaging in a hobby, shopping, going on a vacation or involvement in a community.
Motherhood doesn't mean you should stop dreaming or growing. Sometimes mothers can get stuck in a mold and routine. To break out of a rut, first you must create goals for your future self. What do you want for yourself and your family outside of what you're currently doing. Set Realistic Personal Goal such as learning a new skill, starting a garden, advancing in your career, traveling, etc.
My last point is manifesting. Praying, writing out my goals, investing in myself, joining faith based communities and recording my journey has helped with my growth. Motherhood is golden when you're evolving. Growth allows you to introduce your child(ren) to new experiences, and to be more well rounded and flexible individual.
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