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Lessons I Learned From Motherhood

Hi. I willlike to dedicate this blog to all mothers. Being a mother is not always easy, but the good news is we got this as long as we're enjoying the process and allowing good things to flow throughout us so we can be the best woman and mom we need to be. I will share with you 6 things that I learned from being a mom.❤️.

  1. Time Management is important. Before I became a mom to my beautiful 5 year old daughter I wasted alot of time sleeping, doing what I wanted to do, etc. I was not pressed to establish a routine. I took all the time I wanted getting ready for work, school, church, etc. Time management has become big priority to me. When I experienced motherhood I learned that every minute count and it's not a good feeling to rush due to lack of preparation. After experiencing frustration because I didn't want to be late or miss out on going to church, trip.etc, I started planning ahead and managing my time better.

2. I Learned To Value My Time Better And To Be Better Prepared. I've learned to put the needs of others first. Prior to motherhood, I grew up as the youngest child of my three other siblings. My parents and my siblings ensured that my needs were met, so I didn't had the responsibility of caring for others. Motherhood has challenged me to put my daughter"s needs first and to think, plan, pray and prepare to be preventative.

3. Watch My Actions And Attitude. Children are like sponges they soak up everything whether it"s good or bad. Motherhood has taught me to be more cautious of how I act and how I treat people in her presence as well as how I treat myself.My daughter looks up to me, she always say, “ I want to look and be like you mommy ”. I am my daughter first role model. I work hard to stay balanced and to display a good attitude because my daughter emulates everything I do.

4. Be Resilient. I learned as a mother that I have to be resilient and to keep going no matter what kind of day I'm having and whatever my current circumstances are. I can't allow my feelings and emotions to take control. Motherhood has tested my resilency, I have to show up and be my best for myself and my daughter.

5. Be Saavy. Motherhood has taught me to be more wise in my spending. Prior to motherhood I spent money on unnecessary things. I didn't save my money like I should and I didn't put much thought into making a particular purchase like I'm practicing now. I'm more careful with my spending and I look out for sales to help me save more money.

6. Motherhood has taught me to be more loving and to display understanding. My five year old is loving, energetic and a ball of fun. She likes to cuddle with my husband and I. She taught me how to appreciate life and family time. I enjoy the little things like binge watching Disney movies, decorating the Christmas tree, travelling, shopping, celebrating holidays and birthdays. Motherhood has allowed me to tap into my softer side. I truly believe that God has allowed me to be a mother to mature me and to help me to become a better person and I'm thankful for it all.

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